So, how many times have you lovingly made yourself an item of clothing and then never had an occasion to wear it? Let’s face it, there are only so many times in a year that you’re going to need a tea-dress/vintage style frock with nipped in waist/swirly skirt with a mad print.
This is the pitfall that awaits new stitchers. You have some new skills, you’re all excited by these girly, cute, vintage style patterns, you’re loving all the printed fabrics covered in cute little animals and ditsy flowers. But hang on a sec there, these things are a million miles away from the clothes you normally enjoy wearing and you don’t have a spring wedding to attend every weekend! (Or do you?!….)
Save yourself a bit of sewing disappointment and ask yourself these questions before you get all carried away with that new project:
- What styles best suit your body shape? If you know that full skirts make you look a stone heavier, why spend time sewing yourself one?
- What colours suit your skin tone and hair colour? If you love to wear bright colours, put that pastel lemon floral fabric back on the shelf!
- What sort of garments do you tend to feel most comfortable in? You love to wear trousers and very rarely wear skirts, so don’t choose a skirt pattern to make, thinking it’s time you “got into” skirts.
- What garments and colours do you already have in your wardrobe? If your wardrobe is full of cold colours, bold prints and separates that mix together well, why are you considering a Hawaiian print shirt dress to wear with flip flops in the summer?
Once you’ve got your rational head on, start looking at patterns and fabrics with a fresh and more objective eye. Look at the small line drawings of the design of the pattern and ask yourself if it’s a style you can see yourself wearing. When you’re out shopping for fabric, stop looking at fabric as an abstract thing in its own right (it may as well be wallpaper or a table cloth), imagine great chunks of the stuff draped around your body (grab the roll and hold it up against your face), can you really see yourself wearing it???
Taking a fresh look at what actually suits you can transform your clothes-buying and clothes-making experiences:
- you have no idea of the conditions under which cheap clothes are produced, often workers are exploited and even lives put at risk (read about the factory collapse which killed over 1000 garment workers in Bangladesh in 2013 here)
- buying cheap often means you compromise on fit, so it never looks or feels quite “right”
- cheap clothes are usually badly made from poor quality fabrics making them uncomfortable to wear
- if you know what styles and colours work for you, you can buy less at better quality and are less likely to fall for impulse purchases that you regret later
- it takes the hassle out of getting dressed if you know that everything in your wardrobe works together, fits properly and makes you feel good when you wear it
- once you know what colours suit you and have found a few patterns that fit and flatter, you can use your new-found sewing skills to eventually make a whole new wardrobe of clothes you enjoy wearing
- sewing doesn’t always save money when compared to shopping on the high street, but it could result in you having a much more wearable wardrobe of things you feel good in.
- thoughtful sewing
- grown-up sewing
- making the clothes you want to wear.